Thursday, March 6, 2008

Little Mommy Bella!

On Tuesday, March 4, Bella stayed home with me because she had run a slight fever Monday evening. Being all better, she helped me babysit Rowan Evans, a well-behaved 6 month old.

As the pictures show, Bella helped feed and hold Rowan. She was very motherly! It was nice to see this side of her. Since she is the youngest, unlike her older sister, Bella has not had the chance to be an older sister.

Yes, I know what you are thinking, my Young family nieces! She could be an older sister if only.....
Well, as Jay would say, "Not if I can help it". Seriously, though, he did said a very true thing later that evening, "We've had our children; now we need to raise them."

I was neutral in my opinions. The experience reminded me of the joy and the work! Elian will just have to let us watch Rowan again!

"Tahirih's Life" by Anisa Young

Anisa had a 4th grade mini-research project, having to make an outline, note cards, bibliography, drafts and final report, and poster presentation. Valentine's Day, parents and students toured the class' projects. She worked very hard and had a very comprehensive report on the great personage of Tahirih.






Tahirih's Life
by Anisa Young
Jan. 20, 2008



Tahirih will always be remembered in history as the first woman to believe in the Bab. She removed her veil as a statement for women’s equality with men and an announcement of the New Age of God. She boldly taught the teachings of the Bab in Iran and was arrested and eventually killed for this new religion.

Tahirih was born into a Muslim family around 1814. She lived in Qazvin, Iran. Her father was a priest and a teacher. He was a famous and intelligent clergyman in Iran. Her uncle was also a priest.

Tahirih was not like most children. Instead of playing, she would listen to her family talk about God and the Muslim religion. She learned that her family was confused about religion and did not really understand its spiritual meaning. When she found this out, she began to study religion herself. When she was still a child, she became well know because she was so smart. Tahirih was called Zarrin-Taj, which means “Crown of Gold”.

When Tahirih’s father would teach classes there would be many men studying, but no women were involved. The women were poorly educated in those days. In public women always had to wear a veil.

Tahirih became interested in the new teachings of Shaykh Ahmad and Siyyid Kazim. One day Tahirih was visiting a cousin. In her cousin’s house she saw some books written by Shaykh Ahmad and Siyyid Kazim. She asked if she could read them. In one of the books it said that soon a new prophet of God would come. Tahirih wrote letters to Siyyid Kazim himself to ask questions. After Tahirih received a letter she decided to go to see him in Karbila. The trip to Karbila was in 1843. When she got to Karbila she went straight to his house, but she found out that he had died. Siyyid Kazim’s family let her stay with them and read his writings.

One night after meditating, Tahirih had a dream. In the dream she saw a young man standing in the air praying. Tahirih learned that her sister’s husband was going to look for the Promised One. Tahirih wrote her brother-in-law a letter and told him to give it to the Promised One, the Bab. When the Bab saw the letter he said Tahirih was the seventeenth Letter of the Living. Letters of the Living were the first eighteen people to believe in the Bab and find Him in visions or dreams. Tahirih was also the first woman to believe in the Bab.

Tahirih returned to her father’s house in Qazvin, and a family discussion about her new Faith was held. During the conversation Tahirih’s uncle got mad and cursed the Bab and hit her. She remained calm, but prophetically said, “O uncle, I see your mouth filling with blood.” Later her unlce was killed and the family, remembering her words, unfairly blamed her and the other Babis. She was kept a prisoner in her father’s home. Many Babis were arrested or killed.

At the threat to her own life, she boldly said that God would deliver her if this cause be true. Baha’u’llah, at this time a Babi but later proclaiming to be a Messenger of God (the One promised to come after the Bab), learned of Tahirih’s danger. He immediately sent her oldest brother to help her escape.

After staying a few days with Baha’u’llah in Tehran, she went to Khurasan. A conference was called by the Bab in the little village of Badasht. It was a garden with houses. The people who gathered in Badasht talked about the New Age. Each day Baha’u’llah would reveal a new tablet and chant it for everyone. It was here that Baha’u’llah gave her the name Tahirih, which means “The Pure One”.

One day Baha’u’llah became sick and stayed in his tent. Everyone came to see him except Tahirih because women were not allowed or had to stay behind a curtain. Tahirih asked Quddus, the eighteenth Letter of the Living, to come and see her. Because Quddus refused, Tahirih went to him. When she entered she was not wearing her veil. This made the men very upset and confused.

Taking off her veil was a sign of the New Age when women would be equal with men for the first time in history. Tahirih said, “This is a day to be happy. It is the day when everything in the past is forgotten. Let all of us who have shared in this great occasion arise and embrace each other.” Her announcing the end of the old laws showed that a great revolution was about to take place in all things.

After the conference the Babis spread out to teach. Tahirih was again put under house arrest in the home of the mayor of Tehran. During that time she talked to women of the household. They grew to love her very much, and many became Babis. She also met the king of Iran who had great respect for her.

Tahirih knew that she was going to be killed. She prayed and fasted the day and night before she was killed. She was dressed in a white silk dress preparing to meet her Lord. She was strangled with her white, silk handkerchief and thrown in a well. Tahirih was killed August 1852.

Tahirih is the most celebrated heroine in Persian history. Tahirih’s last words were, “You can kill me as soon as you like, but you cannot stop the emancipation of women.”

Tuesday, March 4, 2008

Anisa's Birthday Party

Anisa had her 10th Birthday party on February 16, 2008. Four close friends joined the fun - Hannah, Elizabeth, Jenna, and Emma, with the latter two staying the night for a sleep-over.
They had a great time playing on the trampoline, boxing and bowling with the early-opened Ayyam-i-Ha present: Wii Sports, eating cake, a bean burrito dinner, and a pancake, sausage, egg breakfast!

It really was fun!

Sunday, March 2, 2008

Happy Ayyam-i-Ha!!!

What an awesome Ayyam-i-Ha the children had!
Ayyam-i-Ha is a Baha'i holiday time, from Feb. 26 until Mar 1, for hospitality, feasting, charity, service, and gift-giving.

The way our family celebrated is as follows.
Each morning the children would open their individual gifts. These gifts ranged from simple toys and games like yo-yo's; clothes; books; and crafts. Most are shown in the pictures.

In the evenings we opened family gifts. Some family gifts included a Wii, a High School Musical Wii (Karaokee), a DS Lite (to share), a Harry Potter Clue board game, a Harry Potter Game key for the Gameboy Advance. The children were wonderfully surprised and exuberant to have received their wishes. (Now I just have to set some ground rules for using them :)).

Service, Charity, and Hospitality this year:
On Tuesday, Feb. 26, Shoaleh gave a pint of blood (which she had planned on doing on her birthday). Also, we went through our wardrobe and toy chest to give away what we haven't been using.

On Friday, Feb. 29, Anisa and Bella took cakes to their classes and bookmarkers they had made as gifts for their friends, and banana bread for their teachers. In the evening we had a party inviting our friends and neighbors.


Sat. March 1, 2008
On Saturday, Mar. 1, we had a packed day. In the morning we had our Cluster Reflection gathering at the McKie's, where the kids made cookie Houses of Worship, a garden, and Bubble bread, played Simon Says, and painted cars.
In the afternoon we enjoyed a family party at Annette's home having fun playing with cousins (see pictures). In the evening a community party was held at the Lewis' home with a Pinata and treats.

Fun! Fun! Fun!

Thank you to all the uncles, aunts, cousins, grandparents, and friends for making the holiday so special!

Finally, as busy and fun as the holiday time was, Ayyam-i-Ha is also time for spiritual preparation for the Baha'i Fast, which occurs during the last Baha'i month of Ala (Loftiness) from Mar. 2 until Mar. 20. Today was the first day of the Fast and those of appropriate age and health are obliged to follow this law. The Guardian of the Baha'i Faith beautifully summarized why we Fast:

"The fasting period...involves complete abstention from food and drink from sunrise till sunset. It is essentially a period of meditation and prayer, of spiritual recuperation, during which the believer must strive to make the necessary readjustments in his inner life, and to refresh and reinvigorate the spiritual forces latent in his soul. Its significance and purpose are, therefore, fundamentally spiritual in character. Fasting is symbolic, and a reminder of abstinence from selfish and carnal desires."

On March 21, we'll celebrate the Baha'i New Year! 18 days to go.....

Friday, January 25, 2008

Christmas Trip to Texas

Our trip to Texas in December was filled with visiting and happy times with friends and family. I am amazed at how many we connected with in such a short time.

We first started by staying the night at my sister Leyla and brother Bate's home in Addison. The next day we attended a birthday luncheon with ladies of the family at Applebees in Ft. Worth.
Then we popped over to my Ama Homa's home for more visiting and games.

Next in Graham, we had a relaxing time at home with my mom and dad to take care of us! We watched movies, played games (Clue), and enjoyed the peace! Anisa(9 yr) independently learned to ride a bike (no training wheels), and this is significant because she never rode her bike at home. It was pulling teeth to get her on the thing! Her developing balance and riding the scooter built confidence so she tackled the bike!
A Baha'i friend Valarie Atwood (who developed the website resource: www.virtueoftheweek.org) drove with her boys, Garrett and Stewart, from Garland to visit one afternoon. She shared her homeschooling resources and was a big help in our decision to homeschool Adib for the spring semester. (Anisa and Bella are staying at Clemson Montessori).




























My high school friends (Regina, Susie, and Hallie) and their family's were in town for the Holidays. Regina, Koen, Andrew, and Matthew came down from Ohio. We had a fun evening for Regina's birthday dinner (local friends Shannon and Jane Anne came).

Susie, Luke, Alex, and Arthur came from Ft. Worth area to join Regina's and my family on Friday, Dec. 28, at Hallie's childhood home in Eliasville. Hallie's hospitality of 4-wheeling, dinner, wii games, trampoline, airplane hanger tour, and pogo sticks was top notch! A great reconnecting time for us and bonding time for our children!On our drive home on New Year's Day 2008, we again stopped to say bye to my grandmother in Ft. Worth. I was happy to see my cousin Martha, Kevin, and baby Paul who were visiting from Houston!

Thanks be to God for a safe journey and happy time. And THANKS TO ALL MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS! I LOVED BEING IN YOUR COMPANY!